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Our underwear is super stretchy. A lot of women tell us that they size down in our products. Please reach out to us if you need any help.

1X - 4X Coming Soon!

Fabric & Care

Body: 94% TENCEL™ Modal + 6% Spandex (PU)
Waistband: 90% Nylon + 10% Spandex

Machine Wash Cold
Tumble Dry Low

The Lenzing certified TENCEL™ Modal fibers that we use for the body of the underwear is derived from renewable wood sources, beautifully soft, allows for moisture absorption and release, washes like a dream and our pairs have withstood years of washing and drying without losing these qualities.

Note From Our Founder

The reason I started this company. It was pain, pure and simple. Regular underwear of all kinds was horribly painful.
That old phrase necessity is the mother of invention is indeed applicable to this. I had to find a solution. I couldn’t find any lingerie companies that even hinted that they knew there was a problem. Any online list of most comfortable underwear for women all showed similar designs just made of different fabrics.
I can’t tolerate elastic around leg openings at all, and my waist also cannot have anything tight around it.
I created these for myself and found that friends and family loved them because they are just so comfortable.

I do have some friends and family who just cannot adjust to not having that elastic around the legs. They like that feeling. That’s totally OK, there are plenty of options for them!

-Holly, Diddi and Bea Founder and CEO

  • Patented Design to reduce pressure around your pelvis

  • made for women with chronic pelvic pain & sensitivities

  • made in the usa with eco-friendly fabric

  • Free Shipping on orders over $50

Yes, many women experience discomfort or pain from typical underwear due to various reasons. The narrow elastic around the leg openings can irritate sensitive nerves, while the elastic waistband can be uncomfortable during bloating or after surgery, such as a C-section.

While developing our products, we found that TENCEL™ Modal offers superior drape and recovery compared to cotton. It is also sustainably made from wood pulp, more breathable, and exceptionally soft, providing a luxurious feel.

Skin Conditions:

  • Psoriasis
  • Hidradenitis suppurativa (HS)
  • General skin sensitivities

Gynecological/Pelvic Conditions:

  • Endometriosis/Adenomyosis
  • Vulvodynia
  • Fibroids
  • UTIs
  • Interstitial cystitis (IC)
  • PCOS

Chronic Pain/Systemic Conditions:

  • Fibromyalgia
  • Ehlers-Danlos (EDS)
  • IBS

Other:

  • C-section recovery
  • Abdominal surgery recovery
  • Nerve damage

Yes. Just as some women prefer sneakers over heels, many simply find non-binding underwear to be more comfortable for everyday wear.

Our underwear may not be suitable for women who prefer the feeling of a tight, secure fit from their undergarments.

Our mesh style is high-waisted and a great choice for those who dislike the look or feel of lace. The lace style has a lower rise, sitting below the hip bones, which eliminates pressure around the navel area. We are currently developing even lower-rise options to accommodate a wider range of preferences.

Yes! We are adding additional sizes in our future production run. Stay tuned!

4.5
Rated 4.5 out of 5 stars
Based on 20 reviews
Total 5 star reviews: 14 Total 4 star reviews: 4 Total 3 star reviews: 0 Total 2 star reviews: 1 Total 1 star reviews: 1
FitRated 0.2 on a scale of minus 2 to 2
ComfortRated 1.4 on a scale of minus 2 to 2
90%would recommend this product
20 reviews
  • DR
    Drue R.
    Verified Buyer
    12 seconds ago
    Rated 4 out of 5 stars
    Great idea!

    I think this painless underwear is a fabulous idea but, unfortunately, I need something that touches me less around the privates area. I found ruched panties long ago (crotch was ruched) and continue to wear them although they are beginning to fall apart. The only thing I can wear comfortably. I suspect if you could come up with that design, many people with painful bladder syndrome and/or vulvodynia would be interested!

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  • R
    Racheal
    Verified Reviewer
    2 weeks ago
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    These underwear have been incredibly comfortable to wear!

    These underwear have been incredibly comfortable to wear! I like the patterned lace waistband one a little better (mostly for aesthetic reasons), but I could see myself preferring the mesh waistband if I had issues with pelvic pain. The lack of elastics/bias tape around the leg "holes" has been truly wonderful! That's consistently the most painful part of traditional undies for me. Your design feels almost like wearing nothing!

    2X is a little big for me at my current weight, but I fluctuate throughout the year and bloat as well sometimes. So 2x will be good for those times. BUT that's also great because I specifically got to test out whether this fabric would leave marks or cause me pain from sitting on a wrinkle! I stress tested these and didn't notice any redness or marks on my skin, even after sitting all day, wheeling about, transferring in and out of my wheelchair a bunch, doing cleaning/chores, and even wearing them under skinny jeans! At one point I specifically bunched up a bit of the fabric to sit on it, just to see if it would hurt or leave a mark. Very pleased to say that it did not! I also find these underwear super comfortable to sleep in.

    The fabric behaves like activewear when it comes to handling sweat, in that it seems to dry faster than cotton, feels cooler, and doesn't seem to hold onto odors nearly as much. The only thing I can't comment on is the longevity after multiple washes, but I don't see that being an issue. Especially not if using a delicates…

    FitRated 1.0 on a scale of minus 2 to 2
    ComfortRated 2.0 on a scale of minus 2 to 2
  • CM
    Connie M. S.
    Verified Buyer
    1 month ago
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    Love these lace hipster

    I have vulvodynia. I have tried every underwear on the market. was Every pair were so irritating. Some one recommended these on vulvodynia community group. I have them on now and have worn them all day long. Amazing! They are so thin. I feel like I. have nothing on. First pairs I received I had size up. I order some that are my normal size and they fit perfect. Yes they are expensive but so worth it!

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  • A
    Alexis
    2 months ago
    Rated 2 out of 5 stars
    Soft fabric, but definitely not made to last.

    I purchased a pair to try prior to my endometriosis surgery, and the owner was so responsive and kind enough to send me the correct size when I submitted my order wrong. I really wanted to love these, because the fabric is super soft. But unfortunately mine ripped upon first wear. For reference, this happened on day two of recovery— so I wasn’t moving around a ton or overstretching the fabric either obviously. :( Bummed— but glad I gave them a try. The search for the perfect pain-free undies continues.

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    Diddi and Bea
    2 months ago

    Hi Alexis,
    Thank you for sharing. We are so so sorry this happened to you, especially while in recovery! We will be reaching out to you to make this right.

  • JW
    Janet W.
    Verified Buyer
    3 months ago
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    Beautiful, painless underwear

    This underwear is very soft and comfortable. Having MS and being in a wheelchair most of the day has made me very sensitive to regular underwear. The lace hipster is wonderful and so is the other style. Thanks for creating this.

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