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Our underwear is super stretchy. A lot of women tell us that they size down in our products. Please reach out to us if you need any help.

Fabric & Care

Body: 94% TENCEL™ Modal + 6% Spandex (PU)
Waistband: 90% Nylon + 10% Spandex

Machine Wash Cold
Tumble Dry Low

The Lenzing certified TENCEL™ Modal fibers that we use for the body of the underwear is derived from renewable wood sources, beautifully soft, allows for moisture absorption and release, washes like a dream and our pairs have withstood years of washing and drying without losing these qualities.

Note From Our Founder

The reason I started this company. It was pain, pure and simple. Regular underwear of all kinds was horribly painful.
That old phrase necessity is the mother of invention is indeed applicable to this. I had to find a solution. I couldn’t find any lingerie companies that even hinted that they knew there was a problem. Any online list of most comfortable underwear for women all showed similar designs just made of different fabrics.
I can’t tolerate elastic around leg openings at all, and my waist also cannot have anything tight around it.
I created these for myself and found that friends and family loved them because they are just so comfortable.

I do have some friends and family who just cannot adjust to not having that elastic around the legs. They like that feeling. That’s totally OK, there are plenty of options for them!

-Holly, Diddi and Bea Founder and CEO

  • Patented Design to reduce pressure around your pelvis

  • made for women with chronic pelvic pain & sensitivities

  • made in the usa with eco-friendly fabric

  • Free Shipping on orders over $50

Yes, many women experience discomfort or pain from typical underwear due to various reasons. The narrow elastic around the leg openings can irritate sensitive nerves, while the elastic waistband can be uncomfortable during bloating or after surgery, such as a C-section.

While developing our products, we found that TENCEL™ Modal offers superior drape and recovery compared to cotton. It is also sustainably made from wood pulp, more breathable, and exceptionally soft, providing a luxurious feel.

Skin Conditions:

  • Psoriasis
  • Hidradenitis suppurativa (HS)
  • General skin sensitivities

Gynecological/Pelvic Conditions:

  • Endometriosis/Adenomyosis
  • Vulvodynia
  • Fibroids
  • UTIs
  • Interstitial cystitis (IC)
  • PCOS

Chronic Pain/Systemic Conditions:

  • Fibromyalgia
  • Ehlers-Danlos (EDS)
  • IBS

Other:

  • C-section recovery
  • Abdominal surgery recovery
  • Nerve damage

Yes. Just as some women prefer sneakers over heels, many simply find non-binding underwear to be more comfortable for everyday wear.

Our underwear may not be suitable for women who prefer the feeling of a tight, secure fit from their undergarments.

Our mesh style is high-waisted and a great choice for those who dislike the look or feel of lace. The lace style has a lower rise, sitting below the hip bones, which eliminates pressure around the navel area. We are currently developing even lower-rise options to accommodate a wider range of preferences.

4.5
Rated 4.5 out of 5 stars
Based on 24 reviews
Total 5 star reviews: 18 Total 4 star reviews: 4 Total 3 star reviews: 0 Total 2 star reviews: 1 Total 1 star reviews: 1
FitRated 0.3 on a scale of minus 2 to 2
ComfortRated 1.5 on a scale of minus 2 to 2
92%would recommend this product
24 reviews
  • A
    Abby
    Verified Buyer
    50 seconds ago
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    Super cute and comfortable

    I love the way this fabric feels- the lace gives them a sexier vibe. I like the hipster rise as someone who loves low waisted skirts and pants. As well as the no seams for my pain and for fashion purposes! These are a definite yes for me. I liked the medium. When I’m at my lowest weight I could probably wear a small but as someone who fluctuates a lot I find the medium very comfortable and prefer things a little larger versus a little smaller. I’ll see as I wear them how much they stretch out - that might influence me to get a size small - I was advised to size down so that’s nothing on them. They advised me very well!

    FitRated 1.0 on a scale of minus 2 to 2
    ComfortRated 2.0 on a scale of minus 2 to 2
  • JD
    Jennifer D.
    Verified Buyer
    1 week ago
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    No digging

    Love the undies

    Lace is soft and not itchy

    No tight leg openings or digging into my skin

    FitRated 1.0 on a scale of minus 2 to 2
    ComfortRated 2.0 on a scale of minus 2 to 2
  • SC
    Sabrina C.
    Verified Buyer
    3 weeks ago
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    Love these! Can't go back to previous underwear.

    I've struggled with endometriosis symptoms, nerve sensitivity and general pelvic pain for quite awhile. I'm picky about clothing but have never found such comfortable underwear until now! I love the lower waistline on these and appreciate that the lace is lined with the super soft fabric (so it doesn't touch the skin directly) ❤️

    FitRated 0.0 on a scale of minus 2 to 2
    ComfortRated 2.0 on a scale of minus 2 to 2
  • BD
    Brianna D.
    Verified Buyer
    1 month ago
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    Comfortable and great customer service

    I would recommend sizing down. I measured myself and purchased a size large. When I tried them on, they were too loose on me. I emailed Diddi and Bea and they replaced my order with a size medium instead which fit perfectly! As someone with HS, I tend to get irritated by regular underwear with elastic around the legs. This underwear does not irritate me, they are very comfortable!

    FitRated 1.0 on a scale of minus 2 to 2
    ComfortRated 1.0 on a scale of minus 2 to 2
  • DR
    Drue R.
    Verified Buyer
    1 month ago
    Rated 4 out of 5 stars
    Great idea!

    I think this painless underwear is a fabulous idea but, unfortunately, I need something that touches me less around the privates area. I found ruched panties long ago (crotch was ruched) and continue to wear them although they are beginning to fall apart. The only thing I can wear comfortably. I suspect if you could come up with that design, many people with painful bladder syndrome and/or vulvodynia would be interested!

    FitRated 0.0 on a scale of minus 2 to 2
    ComfortRated 0.0 on a scale of minus 2 to 2