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Fabric & Care

Body: 94% TENCEL™ Modal + 6% Spandex (PU)
Waistband: 74% Q-Nova PA + 26% Roica Eco-Smart EA

Machine Wash Cold
Tumble Dry Low

The Lenzing certified TENCEL™ Modal fibers that we use for the body of the underwear is derived from renewable wood sources, beautifully soft, allows for moisture absorption and release, washes like a dream and our pairs have withstood years of washing and drying without losing these qualities.

Our mesh is made of Roica which is biodegradable, made with more than 50% pre-consumer recycled content, safer and more comfortable for the skin than conventional elastane.

Note From Our Founder

The reason I started this company. It was pain, pure and simple. Regular underwear of all kinds was horribly painful.
That old phrase necessity is the mother of invention is indeed applicable to this. I had to find a solution. I couldn’t find any lingerie companies that even hinted that they knew there was a problem. Any online list of most comfortable underwear for women all showed similar designs just made of different fabrics.
I can’t tolerate elastic around leg openings at all, and my waist also cannot have anything tight around it.
I created these for myself and found that friends and family loved them because they are just so comfortable.

I do have some friends and family who just cannot adjust to not having that elastic around the legs. They like that feeling. That’s totally OK, there are plenty of options for them!

These are higher waisted than our lace underwear and smoother underneath something like a legging. Not everyone likes or wants lace! We get it! We just need to make sure it won’t hurt. This mesh is not power or compression mesh, it is super soft and gentle on your skin.

-Holly, Diddi and Bea Founder and CEO

  • Patented Design to reduce pressure around your pelvis

  • made for women with chronic pelvic pain & sensitivities

  • made in the usa with eco-friendly fabric

  • Free Shipping on orders over $50

Yes, many women experience discomfort or pain from typical underwear due to various reasons. The narrow elastic around the leg openings can irritate sensitive nerves, while the elastic waistband can be uncomfortable during bloating or after surgery, such as a C-section.

While developing our products, we found that TENCEL™ Modal offers superior drape and recovery compared to cotton. It is also sustainably made from wood pulp, more breathable, and exceptionally soft, providing a luxurious feel.

Several conditions can make typical underwear uncomfortable. Some examples include: 

Skin Conditions:

  • Psoriasis
  • Hidradenitis suppurativa (HS)
  • General skin sensitivities

Gynecological/Pelvic Conditions:

  • Endometriosis
  • Adenomyosis
  • Vulvodynia
  • Fibroids
  • UTIs
  • Interstitial cystitis
  • PCOS

Chronic Pain/Systemic Conditions:

  • Fibromyalgia
  • Ehlers-Danlos (EDS)
  • IBS

Other:

  • C-section recovery
  • Abdominal surgery recovery
  • Nerve damage

Yes. Just as some women prefer sneakers over heels, many simply find non-binding underwear to be more comfortable for everyday wear.

Our underwear may not be suitable for women who prefer the feeling of a tight, secure fit from their undergarments.

Our mesh style is high-waisted and a great choice for those who dislike the look or feel of lace. The lace style has a lower rise, sitting below the hip bones, which eliminates pressure around the navel area. We are currently developing even lower-rise options to accommodate a wider range of preferences.

Yes! We are adding additional sizes in our future production run. Stay tuned!

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Rated 5.0 out of 5 stars
Based on 12 reviews
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FitRated 0.3 on a scale of minus 2 to 2
ComfortRated 2.0 on a scale of minus 2 to 2
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12 reviews
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    Emeri
    15 seconds ago
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    The only undies for me!

    This material and design makes it impossible to have a wedgie. Navigating fibromyalgia and arthritis, clothing often makes the pain in my hips much worse. I didn’t know that it was possible for clothes to be comfortable. In addition to helping with my pain levels, these undies are also super cute and flattering!

    FitRated 0.0 on a scale of minus 2 to 2
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  • ST
    Shae T.
    Verified Buyer
    1 week ago
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    Wow, wow, wow!

    I think I have finally found undies that dont hurt at all!! I never thought I would find underwear that doesn’t hurt my groin. They are the softest fabric and lace. Absolutely perfect!

    FitRated 1.0 on a scale of minus 2 to 2
    ComfortRated 2.0 on a scale of minus 2 to 2
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    Emily C.
    Verified Reviewer
    1 month ago
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    Wow! These are the answer to the problem I’ve had for too long.

    I have hidradenitis suppurativa, a condition where my hair follicles become infected for unknown reasons, and made worse by friction and tight clothing such as the elastic on underwear. This leads to agonizing discomfort and sometimes immobility. There’s no cure, but going without underwear was able to help mitigate my symptoms to an extent.

    Unfortunately, that “fix” didn’t always work, and there was no universal solution for my “nether-region needs” - going commando was uncomfortable at best and impossible at worst, and bike shorts or long specialty boxers were pricey while not always being practical. I tried every brief and thong I could find, without success.

    What an unexpected blessing to find these supremely comfortable briefs. These completely elevate my leggings, skorts, and shorts from the inside out. It’s incredible the difference between no underwear and these underwear.

    These aren’t simply a way to wear a liner or a pad (neither of which I do) - they create a barrier between my most sensitive areas and the seams of clothing that simply weren’t designed to be worn without undies. If my leggings could have talked, they would have said “I don’t get paid enough for this” and gone on strike - no longer! These briefs create the most flexible layer that I never could have imagined. Additionally, my c section scar experiences zero discomfort, and I’m optimistic that any scarring from future pregnancies will be much less uncomfortable thanks to the incredibly soft…

    FitRated 0.0 on a scale of minus 2 to 2
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    Anna A.
    Verified Buyer
    1 month ago
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    Perfect

    Love these!

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    Vivian
    Verified Reviewer
    2 months ago
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    The best of the best.

    These are the most comfortable undies I've ever worn! There are no irritating seams, and the fabric is incredibly stretchy and breathable. I'd say when in doubt, size down because they relax as you wear them. Sometimes I forget if I'm wearing any underwear or not LOL. I have very sensitive skin, and I sweat a TON all day because of medical issues. I can't stand anything rubbing on my skin, or tight on it. I'll get aweful deep pimples and rashes where sweat and pressure sit, and my skin is very easily torn/damaged. I also bloat an insane amount- anywhere from an average of 3 to 5 inches, and these have streatched with me. These are like wearing a feather! I've tried the lace, and the mesh. I think I prefer the mesh, but they're both great. This company is very responsive, and customer service is above and beyond what any other company puts forward. You can tell they really care about the need for a product like this, and they can help answer questions about sizing.

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    ComfortRated 2.0 on a scale of minus 2 to 2