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Our underwear is super stretchy. A lot of women tell us that they size down in our products. Please reach out to us if you need any help.

Fabric & Care

Body: 94% TENCEL™ Modal + 6% Spandex (PU)
Waistband: 74% Q-Nova PA + 26% Roica Eco-Smart EA

Machine Wash Cold
Tumble Dry Low

The Lenzing certified TENCEL™ Modal fibers that we use for the body of the underwear is derived from renewable wood sources, beautifully soft, allows for moisture absorption and release, washes like a dream and our pairs have withstood years of washing and drying without losing these qualities.

Our mesh is made of Roica which is biodegradable, made with more than 50% pre-consumer recycled content, safer and more comfortable for the skin than conventional elastane.

Note From Our Founder

The reason I started this company. It was pain, pure and simple. Regular underwear of all kinds was horribly painful.
That old phrase necessity is the mother of invention is indeed applicable to this. I had to find a solution. I couldn’t find any lingerie companies that even hinted that they knew there was a problem. Any online list of most comfortable underwear for women all showed similar designs just made of different fabrics.
I can’t tolerate elastic around leg openings at all, and my waist also cannot have anything tight around it.
I created these for myself and found that friends and family loved them because they are just so comfortable.

I do have some friends and family who just cannot adjust to not having that elastic around the legs. They like that feeling. That’s totally OK, there are plenty of options for them!

These are higher waisted than our lace underwear and smoother underneath something like a legging. Not everyone likes or wants lace! We get it! We just need to make sure it won’t hurt. This mesh is not power or compression mesh, it is super soft and gentle on your skin.

-Holly, Diddi and Bea Founder and CEO

  • Patented Design to reduce pressure around your pelvis

  • made for women with chronic pelvic pain & sensitivities

  • made in the usa with eco-friendly fabric

  • Free Shipping on orders over $50

Yes, many women experience discomfort or pain from typical underwear due to various reasons. The narrow elastic around the leg openings can irritate sensitive nerves, while the elastic waistband can be uncomfortable during bloating or after surgery, such as a C-section.

While developing our products, we found that TENCEL™ Modal offers superior drape and recovery compared to cotton. It is also sustainably made from wood pulp, more breathable, and exceptionally soft, providing a luxurious feel.

Skin Conditions:

  • Psoriasis
  • Hidradenitis suppurativa (HS)
  • General skin sensitivities

Gynecological/Pelvic Conditions:

  • Endometriosis/Adenomyosis
  • Vulvodynia
  • Fibroids
  • UTIs
  • Interstitial cystitis (IC)
  • PCOS

Chronic Pain/Systemic Conditions:

  • Fibromyalgia
  • Ehlers-Danlos (EDS)
  • IBS

Other:

  • C-section recovery
  • Abdominal surgery recovery
  • Nerve damage

Yes. Just as some women prefer sneakers over heels, many simply find non-binding underwear to be more comfortable for everyday wear.

Our underwear may not be suitable for women who prefer the feeling of a tight, secure fit from their undergarments.

Our mesh style is high-waisted and a great choice for those who dislike the look or feel of lace. The lace style has a lower rise, sitting below the hip bones, which eliminates pressure around the navel area. We are currently developing even lower-rise options to accommodate a wider range of preferences.

4.8
Rated 4.8 out of 5 stars
Based on 38 reviews
Total 5 star reviews: 33 Total 4 star reviews: 4 Total 3 star reviews: 1 Total 2 star reviews: 0 Total 1 star reviews: 0
FitRated 0.3 on a scale of minus 2 to 2
ComfortRated 1.9 on a scale of minus 2 to 2
97%would recommend this product
38 reviews
  • SR
    Susan R.
    Verified Buyer
    1 week ago
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    Plus size fits really great

    I love the fit and comfort of these underpants. They’re like wearing a whisper. And they’re made in the USA! As a plus size woman, I truly appreciate that you’re size inclusive. Well done. I’ll be back for more. More colors, please!

    FitRated 0.0 on a scale of minus 2 to 2
    ComfortRated 2.0 on a scale of minus 2 to 2
  • S
    Savannah
    Verified Buyer
    3 weeks ago
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    After Nerve Damage from Surgery, These Were Life Savers!

    After having a hysterectomy, I suffered pretty severe nerve damage and had horrible pain wearing "regular" underwear. I found an add on social media and sent a customer service message asking if they had larger sizes because I'm regularly a 2X. Ginger was absolutely fantastic with helping me and sending me some when they had their plus size prototype finished! They were pain and hassle free! I finally was able to feel sexy and comfortable for the first time after surgery! I'm so thankful for Ginger and the entire team for making people like me feel seen and heard!

    FitRated 0.0 on a scale of minus 2 to 2
    ComfortRated 2.0 on a scale of minus 2 to 2
  • S
    S.E.
    Verified Buyer
    1 month ago
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    So comfy

    I have a hip injury and these are some of the only underwear that have worked for me in 15 years.

    FitRated 0.0 on a scale of minus 2 to 2
    ComfortRated 2.0 on a scale of minus 2 to 2
  • JK
    Jennine K.
    Verified Buyer
    1 month ago
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    Wow....just wow

    I have pudendal neuralgia & havent been able to wear underware for years. It increases my pain so much. I wore these for 1 day & it felt like i didn't have any on! Zero pain!! I honestly couldn't believe it. No underware has EVER done that for me before, ever.

    They are so soft. Like the softest material you've ever worn. And the comfort is like wearing nothing.

    I ordered an xl just bc I have a belly & I hate anything tight around it. I probably could've gotten a large. But they didnt fall down at all. Actually, my pants migrated down before the ubderware did.

    I am absolutely in love with these & will be ordering more!

    Thank you for creating a product for us with pelvic pain & pudendal neuralgia! Finally I am able to wear dresses this summer without shorts under or increased pain from underware. Im so excited!!

    FitRated 1.0 on a scale of minus 2 to 2
    ComfortRated 2.0 on a scale of minus 2 to 2
  • E
    Echo
    Verified Reviewer
    1 month ago
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    Couldn't even feel them

    I have fibromyalgia which comes with severe skin sensitivity as well as sensory issues from autism. When I tell you these are some of the most the comfortable underwear I've ever worn. The only issue was that I need them personally a little wider in the bum area. I was having a flare and it felt like I was wearing nothing. I can't thank the owner enough. The mesh fit really nice over my stomach as well. Also they're really cute.

    FitRated 0.0 on a scale of minus 2 to 2
    ComfortRated 2.0 on a scale of minus 2 to 2